Firstly, there are no stupid questions here, we all had to ask too along the way.
Your understanding of DoF is correct so far. Some other points to consider:
I presume you are using a sturdy tripod and either a cable release or self-timer if your shutter speeds are below (e.g., we are all different in our abilities to hand hold steadily) 1/60th? Don’t confuse poor DoF with camera shake.
Digital bodies suffer from diffraction badly, so that sharpness suddenly drops off at a set aperture (defined by sensor size and type). You might like to experiment here at see at what aperture this happens on your body, possible f/16 or f/22 might be as small as you’d ever want to go.
To get maximum DoF for landscapes, you ideally should be using the hyperfocal distance method. Unfortunately Nikon make some lenses without the distance scale ideally needed to do this (I’ve never understood how they think it’s acceptable to sell a lens with no distance scale). Regardless, it’s worth knowing the technique anyway. Using an online DoF calculator (such as:
http://www.dofmaster.com/dofjs.html), and imagining that we are shooting a landscape with the lens at 18mm focal length, with an aperture of f/16, we can see that focussing at 3.38ft (1.03 metres) will give us everything from 1.69ft (0.51 metre) to Infinity in focus.
Finally, if you are still having DoF field issues, note what renowned Nikon expert Dr. Bjørn Rørslett has to say on lens design:
‘The internal focusing (IF) principle may unfortunately also introduce some colour fringing outside the plane of sharp detail. This can give rise to disturbing red, green, or purplish fringing of unsharp highlights. Lack of concurrent focus for the primary colours also leads to a certain fuzziness in the depth-of-field (DOF) zone. In the focused plane, colours may coincide more or less perfectly to diverge in front or back of that plane of maximum sharpness. Thus, many wide-angles will never attain anything like the theoretical DOF due to their residual colour aberration. Even very expensive lenses clearly exhibit such problems. I often find older lenses to behave much better in this respect - although their peak sharpness may be lower than the modern designs, they more than make up for this with improved rendition of the out-of-focus areas.’
From
http://www.naturfotograf.com/lens_surv.html in accordance with Dr. Rørslett’s terms.
Perhaps if you posted a picture showing the lack of contrast other might be able to help.
The Nikon 50mm f/1.8 is great value for money, but’s that’s only true if you actually desire this focal length.
Hope that all helps.